♥Kyabajo LOVE♥

 I'm sure many of you share my obsession with sexy Kyaba Gals, so I thought I'd make an entry about that. ;)

WHAT IS "KYABAJO"?

Kyabajo are basically Hostesses, working at "kyabakura" (Hostesses Clubs, counter part of a Host Club). 

I'm sure most of you know this fact already, but to complete the list: Kyabajo are NO prostitutes. 

Most of the kyabakura are just clubs were you can drink, play games and have fun with pretty ladies for a specific amount of money - Sex is an OPTION, but not a MUST. To make it more specific, Sex is even discouraged!

Sweet Amani has put it very well in the comments section, here's a quote:
With Kyabajo, sex is -usually- discouraged since the job is all about manipulation really... You're sweet-talking and trying to make good conversation and stuff and trying to make guys buy more drinks. But once you sleep with them there's always the risk of loosing that customers interest in the process, and that's very detrimental to your employment at the lounge. So unless it's a really shady club or something that pushes you to prostitute yourself, sex is usually a huge no. 
Thank you Amani ♥

So there are definately Pro's and Con's regarding this Job, but I don't wanna start a big discussion now. =)

For me, the most important PRO is the fashion Kyabajo mostly wear ♥

THE FASHION

Kyabajo mostly wear Agejo fashion including the typical Agejo hairstyles (like Sujimori). The make-up tends to have an extra bling, layered eyelashes and thick eyeliner ♥ 

Also, heavy deco-ed nails (Sakurina style!) are often seen, along with nice sparkling jewelry to complete the look. 

For a sexy touch, Kyabajo tend to wear a deep neckline showing much bust, and hot garter stockings. 

During daytime, big sunglasses are beeing worn (mostly to cover the black circles after a night of party).

The brand that mostly fits these specifics is, by no means: MA*RS! =)

Hmmm, sounds nice, but not that special... right? 

So what actually makes Kyabajo really special for me is...

SPECIAL WEAR

Kyabakura are famous for holding "theme nights" or "costume events". During these events, Kyabajo will dress according to the topic of the night. Here are some examples!

Gown Night (my absolute favorite ♥)

 Love the mix of light pink & turquoise ♥

So sexy! *___*

 Kimono-style gowns are also very famous!

Oh how I wish I would also have any occassion to wear such a dress... I would buy one in an instant, so beautiful! ♥

Suit Night

 Set by Ma*rs. Pink x black color combination is very famous amongst Kyabajo!

 Another Ma*rs Set - I love the chain detail sooooo much! 

 This set is done by Yumetenbo, it was featured on Ageha! ♥ (A tad too sexy for my taste, but very nice to look at nonethless. ;D)

Costume Night

 Oh well... since easter holidays are coming... xD

The infamous Santa costume! All over the Gal shops every year during November & December, haha. =)

LIFESTYLE

Mostly getting up in the afternoon, Kyabajo have to get ready for work SOON. And I mean SOON. 

The coordination of the outfit has to be done, as well as the heavy make-up. Also, the usual preparations mostly require a hairset by a professional hairstylist, which can take up to 2-3 hours (especially complicated Sujimori hairstyle). And that's not even counted as "working time" yet!

Work starts in the late evening at the Kyabakura - that means playing out all social skills, constantly keep your smile up, keep flirting, keep trying to sell drinks (because that's what Kyabakura actually make their money with) and keep drinking. 

Sounds like a big Party, but imagine you have to do this EVERY DAY, 6 DAYS A WEEK. x___X

Closing time is mostly in the early morning, which basically means: Hurry home and go to bed, to get up in the afternoon again. And the circle is repeating... 

As you see, keeping up a "normal" life as a Kyabajo is kinda hard.

Donki & Conbini stores are the best friend of those Gals, because they're open 24 hours a day. 

There's even a solution for shopping clothes during the evening and nighttime! Around famous Kyabakura districts, you will always see a couple of clothing shops carrying Kyabajo-style clothing. The opening times absolutely fit with the working times at the Kyabakura +/- 3 hours! Quite handy - at least a few stores for them to shop in! =)

Working mostly at night and sleeping at day surely costs a lot of energy, and they still manage to look absolutely flawless - I pay a lot of respect to all those Kyabajo out there! >///<

FAMOUS KYABAJO

Some of Kyabajo made it really far, becoming actresses, models and the like. 

I once heard that Himena Ousaki, the role-model of all Himegyaru, used to be working at a Kyabakura before!

Makes her even more adorable, I think! ♥

If you have more info for me to add to this post, please let me know! =D 

Special thanks to my better half over there in Japan, Mai-chan - thanks for sponsoring so much input (maybe...70%? xD) for this entry! ;)

Now some personal things... I'm happy that I could successfully complete my last big exam today, I'm so happy its over! It was really exhausting! x___X Now I'm excited to see my grades... xD" (Hope they're not too bad...)

During all this stressful time, my boyfriend was a big help for me! He was coping with my mood swings all the time and without complaining, always trying to cheer me up and care about me... Such a sweetie! Q__Q

One day, I was very down... so he allowed me to play dress-up with him! :´D It was so much fun, I dressed him like a korean idol, kihihi ♥

Ahhhw, I love this photo a lot. :´D
But it is so NOT him, haha. xD 

He felt kinda awkward in this outfit, even wearing make-up and shit. And to be honest... I also like him a lot better in his usual style, haha. 

But we both had a blast playing dress-up, thanks for that awesome day Honey ♥

Today, a very embarrassing thing happened to me... I'm still blushing when I think about it! xD"
I wanted to post a message to my facebook journal, just some personal spam about weight loss AND my latest measurements... BUT I accidentally posted it public at the Gal Sales, so embarrassing! And I didn't realize that until 45 minutes later, OMG... Please let me dig a hole and jump into it. xD"
I really hope I didn't disturb anybody, since the Gal Sales are for SELLING & BUYING things, but not for personal bullshit. =/

Anyways, I wonder what is the most embarrassing situation that happened to YOU recently? Let's share some funny experiences, haha! ;D

It's such a sweet, sweet life, isn't it?

Sales, Get's and all the nice things in life! ♥

Guess who's back again, haha! ;D
Hope you're all doing well!

First of all, I wanted to let you know about my recent sales! Yumetenbo & d.i.a stuff included, plz check it out! ;)
Follow meeeeeeee ~

Weather is absolutely crazy in Germany at the moment! 2 weeks ago, it used to be sunny and warm - I even had the chance to wear a flowy spring dress! Q__Q (How I miss those days! *granny mode off ~ lol*) Then it suddenly started snowing again, and at the moment we're drowning in rain. =/

I hope it'll be warm again soon! I'm a bit sick of wearing my winter clothes while so many cute new spring stuff is sitting in my closet waiting to be worn out! xD

I'm a bit tense recently, since I'm having my big mid-term exams on Thursday & Friday! x__X
As you might know I'm studying nursing - I'm in the last year of my education period now, which simply means: Tests, tests, tests. xD"
I'll be taking exams in human anatomy (physiology & pathology), patients care of all ages (newborn to elderly), and nursing science (theory of nursing). Especially the last topic is killing my nerves, because I gotta remember the names and theories of so many famous nurses... x___X

I'll try my best anyways, can't wait to finally get my full nurse degree and start helping patients as THEY NEED IT, not following the "saving time, saving money" rule. <.<
I'll be an awesome nurse for sure! ♥

 

The best way to distract myself from those quite stressfull event is... SHOPPING, of course! xD
My biggest love and my greatest habit, yeah... but well, that won't stop me from drooling over my recent bought treasures! I don't regret anything, haha. ♥

My Gets!

Ma*rs Garter Pants

Oh yes, they finally arrived to their new loving home! ♥

These are my "motivation pants" to loose some more weight, haha! They're a size 25, and I can already fit into them (which is a huge success for me anyways, lol) - I'm not 100% confident about the fit, though. I think I'll feel more comfortable wearing those when I lost some more kg. Wish me luck! ;)

Ma*rs skirt

Believe it or not, I saw myself in a dream, wearing exactly this skirt - I had to get it, no matter what! *__* (crazy bitch is crazy.)
I love it to death, it's even more beautiful then I ever imagined! Now I cannot wait to get the matching top ♥

Perfume & Bodylotion Set "Everose" by Jil Sander

It's a present from my BF! OMG I was wishing for that Perfume for a couple of months already, I was so super happy that he remembered! Q___Q
He got me this awesome Perfume & Bodylotion Set for White Day, isn't it cute? ^///^ I only took a photo of the box, though - I was too excited trying out the perfume after I unwrapped it, I absolutely forgot taking further photos. xD"

Everose is perfect for all girls that are into sweet and elegant scents! It slightly smells like roses, but in a very pleasant way! (Rose perfumes mostly tend to smell like good old grannys toilet potpourri... <.<)

I have the infamous d.i.a Moon Belt waiting in our local customs office atm (oh what a pleasure to go there meet my BEST FRIENDS again. ~__~ *sarcasm off*), and 2 pairs of cute lenses will arrive soon ♥ So excited to get my stuff soon! ♥

I'll end this entry with the usual photo spam, beware. ;) 

I'm really into the mood for Agejo now, as you might already guess from my recent Ma*rs buys, haha! ;) So I couldn't wait to wear out my new Ma*rs skirt! 

Oh well, always striking the same pose recently... how boring. <.<
I'll try to remember doing something different next time, plz bear with me until then! xD"

Necklace: La Pafait
Jacket & Skirt: Ma*rs
Top: (not visible) H&M
Overknees, Shoes, random accessory: Offbrand

Close up!

Tried a hairstyle that I found in an old Ageha magazine, what a bad choice. Unfortunately it makes me look like a horse face. x___X Oh well, at least I learned something from it. xD
I was pleased with the make-up though, it's inspired by one of Sakurinas recent eyemake tutorials! (Once again I didn't manage to take a decent photo of it. I suck. Forever. ~__~)

I'll be posting again when exams are over, wish me luck! ;)
Wishing you an awesome time ♥

It's such a sweet, sweet life, isn't it?

Sweet Valentines Day ♥

Happy Valentines Day to all of you!  ♥
May you all have a sweet time ♥

I know most ppl don't really like Valentines Day for various reasons - but I can't help it and be crazy about it! I'm looking forward to this day for the past 3 weeks already ♥

Obviously, I made chocolates again this year - it wasn't a big surprise for my BF since I do this every year, but of course he loved them anyways ~ xD

Sweet Valentines Day  ♥

 Strawberry Cream chocolates & Peppermint Cream chocolates ♥

I was really happy to prepare these! I love making sweets  ♥

Since we're talking about "sweet"... once recent outfit that made me think about "graduating sweet styles" even more... I don't really dig it 100% anymore. =/

Giant hips... lol

Kay... 20 extra minutes of workout tonight. lol

Outfit Rundown:

Pullover: Tally Weijl

Skirt: Liz Lisa

Thights: Ebay

Boots: Yumetenbo

Accessory: Offbrand

Oh well, you might know I change my taste very fast. My love for sweet styles might come back with the beginning of spring. ~ xD

Anyways, I kinda liked my make-up that day!

Visible nose-stripe, yay! :´D

Not 100% satisfied, I wanna try drawing another kind of eyeliner next time - this style makes my eye rather long then really big. =/ I promise to practise some more! Ò__O/

Oh, and one more outfit inspired by sexy "Black Diamond" Gals ♥  

(My new inspiration ♥ Haha, I'm so going with the Kuronba wave now. xD")

Okay, I admit it... I fell for the leg fluffies. xD"  

(I always found them so stuuuuupid looking - until Black Diamond Gals convinced me they're actually really cool. xD")

Outfit rundown:

Blouse & Shorts: Yumetenbo

Top: H&M

Belt: d.i.a

Legwarmers: Bodyline

Shoes & Accessory: Offbrand

I wish one day I can rock this style as much as Black Diamond Gals! ♥ I'm still so-so at the moment, but I wanna try hard to become AWESOME soon! Ò__O/

Sorry, too much photo-spam about me. x___X 

(I spare you my face next time, promise! XD)

I also found something nice for all german Gals - or better said, girls in general! ;D

Sexy pink Agejo style hangers

 I found this in 1€-store called "Tedi" while I was searching for carneval accessories - such a great find! :´D

They also had them in Silver/Red/Lavender x Black lace combination, maybe that's more of your taste? ;)
They cost 1€ each! ^^

Wish you all a sweet Valentines Day! =D 

It's such a sweet, sweet life, isn't it?

Trying my luck again! ;D

Check this awesome giveaway at spider galaxy! *___*

A whole Ma*rs setup to win, OMG! Everybody join, the giveaway will close on 12nd! >////<

Link to the giveaway at spider galaxy

It's such a sweet, sweet life, isn't it?

Sales again ♥ ~ wishlist items & sporting Agejo ♥

 Hey sweethearts, how are you doing? ;)

I'm doing a massive closet cleanout at the moment, due to weight loss and a little style change! Please check my Sale:

Sales Post under here! ;)
If you're interested in an item, you can drop me a comment under the Sales Post, or here at my blog! ;)

"Style change" doesn't mean I'm leaving Gyaru Style, its actually the total opposite - since my body is in better shape now, I feel more and more comfortable to wear sexy Gal clothes :´D I'm really eager to move from cute Romagal style to to sexy Kuronba & Agejo ♥ (Even though I won't quit wearing Liz Lisa, I just want... more variety in my closet now. xD)

Due to that, my love for d.i.a started blooming again... these are my new wishlist items now ♥

Sexy Ma*rs garter pants I won at an auction today ♥

Size 25 - they're my motivation pants to loose more weight! >////<

Sexy d.i.a knit pullover ♥

Preferrably in white, but black also rocks! 

The infamous d.i.a moon belt!

Lusting over this for a couple of months already ♥

Want it with golden chain details!

Overknee boots by Yumachi for Yumetenbo

Sexy legs sponsored by cute Anji Ishio, check out her blog please! =D Gyaru Sekai

Sold out at Yumetenbo in no time, now it's quite hard to get them (second hand) - but I'll hunt them down and find them anyways, haha ~ law of attraction, baby ♥

I. Fairy Casper Brown + I. Fairy super crystal brown circle lenses

 Just had to throw out my Princess Mimi brown and green lenses, now I only have diameter 14,5 lenses left Q_Q

I love the style of these lenses so much! I saw the casper brown lenses on a Black Diamond gal, so sexy ♥ And the super crystal brown ones might give my eyes the honey golden color I wish for a few years already >////<
Argh, how to get a sponsor for circle lenses... xD

Let me end this entry with a quote of my gaijin gyaru idol Queenie:

"Why did I never see you doing Agejo?"

~ xD

Challenge accepted, here I am:

 My new favorite hairstyle ♥

Still gotta fight the flabby arms, though - 40 more push-ups tonight! xD

 Full Coordinate

 Dress: Offbrand

Choker: Customized offbrand

Jacket: Ma*rs

Boots: Yumetenbo

Garter: Ageha store

Random accessory: Offbrand

Have an awesome time and don't forget to check my sales, please! ;)

It's such a sweet, sweet life, isn't it?

Recent buys ~ wish it was spring already! ♥

I've been doing too much shopping, recently. xD"

My BF took me out to go to Munich for a couple of times, where HUGE sales are going on ♥

So Gals, if you're in Munich you definately gotta check out:

~ ARICO shoestore at the main station (They're also running a clothing store at the other side of the main station, but they don't really have much to sell there. <.<) Can get a super cute pair of warm boots for 10€  ♥

~ Tally Weijl - Basically always worth a visit, especially if you're searching for sexy clothes that match Kuronba // Agejo style. They're currently having a big sale on sexy wool pullovers with deep neckline! I bought 2 of them ♥

Oh, and for all Lolitas: They're currently selling a mint colored leather jacket. Might be interesting for sweet Lolitas. ;)

~ New Yorker is currently selling a wide range of knit pullovers with crosses, that are very similiar to the ones beeing sold at Galstar! A perfect basic item for rokku style ♥

I'm very happy that I could make a lot of good deals due to those sales! ^////^ 

I also saw some very amazing clothes! Especially this one...

EPIC BRA

*___*

Too amazing to describe with words ~
Would look awesome under a sheer shirt, but for sure I'd never have the guts to wear that! xD

I also got some super cute clothes in the mail the past weeks ♥ Let me show you what I got!

Yumetenbo Onepiece "Antique Rose Print"

It is really lovely and well made, I'm so happy I got this ♥
It is fully lined, and flares out very nicely at the bottom! I hope spring is coming soon, so that I can wear this baby out! >///<

Yumetenbo blouse

LOVE ♥

There's nothing more to say, it's absolutely perfect ♥

I especially love the button and ruffle detail, so cuuuute ♥

It has now become my favorite blouse ♥

Yumetenbo suspender skirt

Unfortunately far too big on me. ;___;

According to the Yumetenbo size chart, it should fit perfectly... so I was kinda disappointed how baggy it looks on me. =/

I'll try to alter it, because it's to cute to re-sell it. >////<

...I love the tiny bow's on the buttons! ♥

I also bought this Liz Lisa pullover second hand

It is so cozy warm and cute, but unfortunately sooo baggy on me! Makes me look like a marshmallow. ;__;

(I'll try some more coordinates with it, but if it doesn't turn out well I might re-sell it. =/)

Dammit, I really spent too much money on clothes. So hard to resist the sales! xD" 

Time to save up a little now ♥

But for you...

Enjoy the Sales, may you all grab a nice deal! ;)

Kinda nonsense / no meaning post this time, some more reasonable entry's hopefully coming soon! XD"

It's such a sweet, sweet life, isn't it?

Going Kuro Lolita?

All those wardrobe posts on EGL inspired me to lay out my own wardrobe to enjoy some eye-candy. ~ xD

I don't have an impressive Lolita wardrobe, just a very few treasured pieces. It's not worthy making a post about it - but seeing my dresses laying on my bed one to another, I realized how much Lolita style has evolved the past years.

I'll focuss on the brand "Angelic Pretty" in this entry, but similiar changes also applied to the other big Lolita brands like "Moi-même-Moitié" & "Baby, the stars shine bright".

Comparing my AP dresses, the most drastic change was quite easy to see:

THE LENGTH

Left side: AP Rose Toilette OP, Release in 2007 (my "oldest" dress)

Right side: AP Little Birds Symphony, Release in 2012 (my "youngest" dress)

To make it even more clearly:

That is a length difference of 7cm! 

That might not sound that much, but when worn, it cannot be unseen. =/ 

I'm not that tall myself (1,58m), and the "Rose Toilette" fits me just fine. The seams of the dress come across my knees, and the +2cm of lace do the rest. Perfect Lolita Silhouette ♥

As about "Little Birds Symphony"... the missing 7cm do make a huge difference for me, since my knees are definately showing. It might be okay when I'm standing or walking straight (I'm not that prude that I don't want my knees to show), but when I'm bending over... thanks god for the invention of bloomers. xD" 

Anyways, that's one point that makes me feel uncomfortable. =/

THE QUALITY

This is only my personal opinion, but I feel like especially AP's quality has been constantly going down a little the past years. 

Let's take a look at the last photo again...

The Print.

Both dresses are so called "border prints", which means most of the print is going on at the very bottom of the dress. 

As you can see, the print of "Rose Toilette" does perfectly end up with the seams. Not one single dot is cut off. As for "Little Birds Symphonia", the ribbons are cut off at the seems 70% of the time, all around the dress. It's just such a tiny little matter, but for me, it is very bothersome. =/ 

The Lace.

I love the delicate lace of "Rose Toilette". ♥ It has lots of tiny details, and looks just as fragile as a perfume bottle itself ♥ 

I'm not saying that the lace of "Little Birds Symphonia" is bad, but look at the big netting, and bold lines... it also feels a lot thinner then the lace on earlier AP dresses. Don't misunderstand, it is still a nice quality lace! But definately not as beautiful and delicate as Rose Toilette. =/

The thickness of the Fabric.

I could just say "Fabrics used to be thicker then nowadays" and end this point, but theres some more to it. 

The structure of the fabric has changed as well - unfortunately it's very hard to take a decent photo of it, sorry. =/ 

While the "Rose Toilette" has lots and lots of tiny striations alongside which gives a thicker feel, "Little Birds Symphonia's" fabric is flat like an H&M shirt. And that's also how the fabric feels like... =/ 

Those points all together make me hardly consider if I should really spend THAT much money on a new release AP dress. =/

Oh, since we're already at it... here's one more point that makes me consider that even harder. xD"

THE RECENT PRINTS

It's no secret that AP has recently designed a loooot of dresses with toy / little pet animal / cute sweets themes. I'm totally fine with it, and I love the look on other girls! But for me... that's not my cup of coffee. x___X

I'm mostly wearing Hime Lolita, and I don't like to incorporate toy / little pet animal / cute sweets with that. Cosmetics, butterfly's, flowers and roses.. everything is fine for me. But none of the latest releases match my taste. Q__Q

And then... I saw this:

OMG cute Hime OP by AP! Border Print! With Chandelier! (...me absolutely NOT paying attention to the decoration on top of the advertise)

Even though I already have "Little Birds Symphonia", which is kinda the same style of OP, I was immediately craving for that! >////<

Well. Then I saw the close up of the print.

Cupcakes. Little pet Animals. On a *** chandelier. WHYYYYYYY! Dx

That really spoilt everything. Q___Q

The dress has such a nice design and the print looks so awesome from far! 

Now I'm hardly debating with myself wether to get the Ivory version one day, or not. (Second Hand, of course) In Ivory, the cupcakes and so on are not thaaaat much visible. xD"

Argh. Sooner or later I might just go Kuro Lolita. ~__~

Doesn't really solve the Quality problem, but the print issue! xD (Which is, at the moment, most bothersome for me for obvious reasons. lol)

Please let me know your opinion about the latest prints, and the possible quality changes!

It's such a sweet, sweet life, isn't it?

Happy new year!! ♥

Hey dear's, how you're all doing? =D

May you all have a happy and sucessful 2013! Wishing you only the best ♥

I just survived a heavy case of infectious mononucleosis. x___X 

I had a strong fever for almost 2 weeks, which made my body become so super weak... still now, I have a lot of problems will low blood pressure and feeling tired and worn out ~ I had no feeling for blogging therefore, very sorry. =/

But enough of that negative stuff. ;D 

So now that we've already reached year 2013, I thought it would be fun to take a look at last years resolutions for 2012... this is what I wanted to do in 2012:

- live together with my BF

DONE. So happy about it, live has never been sweeter ♥

- loose a little weight

I actually lost 8kg, which I'm so happy about ♥

- do my driving license

I got my driving license in April AND my own car in November! Now if that isn't a big achievement for me. :´D

- try to not be as sensitive anymore

Nyah, fail. xD" I'm just as sensitive, so I'm gonna keep this resolution on my list for 2013. lol

- wear lolita more often / attend more meetups

Failed with that one as well. =/ But it'll get better in 2013, now that I have my own car. :´D Sweet freedom ♥

And that's my list of new year resolutions for 2013!

- fit into these Ma*rs pants  

(starting with size 26, hopefully fitting into size 25 by the end of year! Ò__O/):

- graduate in nursing with a very good degeree and get an awesome and well paid job

- wear more lolita and gyaru
- DIY extensions ♥  

I want blonde + pastel mint & pink dip dye like this girl ♥

 (photo taken from google, unfortunately I have no idea who this beautiful girl actually is. :/)

- do more para para 

- travel to Taiwan, China and Japan with my love 

(which basically means saving a looooooot of money. xD")

Oh, and since we just stumbled across the words "save money"... my recent yumetenbo buys. :´D  

*irony*

Chiffon dress (offwhite)

I already wanted to buy this one when it first came out in spring 2012, but I was too greedy. =/
Now I got it with a little discount, lucky me it hasn't sold out yet! ^////^

Blouse (offwhite) and halter skirt (beige)

I bought these two items seperately, I just loved how the coordinate looks! So cute, Roma-Gal ♥

I also bought a simple white knit and cute beige nordic boots in Munich yesterday ~ discount everywhere, I love Winter Sales! :´D 

I found a perfect white long pullover for a Gal coordinate at Pimkie yesterday, but apparently size S looks totally baggy on me (the sizing is really off, same happened to my friend) - I'm still considering buying the pullover and washing it very hot + tumble dry... since its a wool blend, it might shrink a bit? x__X 

Argh, whatever. xD" 

Here's the most recent photo of myself and my BF. =) (To keep the tradition of ending every 2nd blog entry with a face-spam of myself. xD)

...on our christmas date. =)

I'm looking wasted on it because of the fever, sorry. xD"

Have a good start in 2013! =D

It's such a sweet, sweet life, isn't it?